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Post by JJR on Jan 28, 2020 17:37:31 GMT
On a slightly different but perhaps related direction. In this mornings paper, Anne Francke, CEO of the Chartered Management Institute called on companies yesterday 'to discourage their male employees from talking about sport because it could exclude women and lead to laddish behaviour and laddish culture in the workplace....a lot of women could not be included in the conversation'. Freedom of speech??
We all have different opinions, different interests but we must allow those we disagree with to have their views and their interests. What he said was not well stated and he over-egged it but it's his view. From what I've read he's stated that he's not expressed himself too well, not apologised, but explained, but it's his belief.
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Post by Carnster on Jan 28, 2020 17:46:08 GMT
It's not particularly helpful to counter one opinion by saying, 'Yeah but this... that's just as bad.' Nobody is saying it isn't. it's just that this is the opinion being currently talked about. This isn't 'employing bad people' top trumps...
I've heard everything today regarding this from those so outraged they refuse to go/watch (Some of them Dragons fans) to those in total agreement with Folau and everything in between. Whether we like it or not this is reflective of society as a whole. We all think different things and hold different views and opinions. Society as an entity moves forward and progresses though, and carries us all along for the ride. This is an important point. As society progresses so does its values and morals. It's why we don't drown people with mental illness as witches. Why we don't tolerate cruelty to animals. Or enslave other human beings. All things that were not only socially acceptable in the past, but also divinely ordained. Do people in the present still hold outdated and morally wrong opinions? Absolutely. But the majority change and those in the minority eventually pass into history.
The problem with Folau's multiple comments is that society has deemed them archaic, wrong and to be consigned to history as they should be. It's not acceptable to hide behind religious belief as an excuse for unacceptable behaviour. I'm presuming that he is similarly outraged by those with tattoos, who wear mixed fabrics, and those that eat shrimps. Something the Bible also says is forbidden. But of course he finds these things okay because he partakes in them. If he doesn't like gay sex then he should refrain from doing that and that's fine. What others choose to do are up to them.
That is why Folau is wrong for what he did.
RL clubs are hypocritcal. Society is too. It's complicated. In my opinion SL and Catalan shouldn't have touched him. Maybe if he'd apologised or made amends he wouldn't have been sacked or at least would have been given another chance. He instead chose to carry it on and show no regard for the consequences of his actions. He then p1ssed and moaned about it, and tried to get the gullible public to stump-up the cash for his legal team. He's literally going to be poison to the sport he ends up in.
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Post by SalfordSlim on Jan 28, 2020 17:58:09 GMT
It's all OK I get blamed for no end of online shat. TBF it usually is you MR so easy to make that mistake.đđ I'm struggling with this one. I'm totally against what he's done and abhor his views but as others have pointed out there must be dozens of players in SL who have committed violent crimes yet we've forgiven/turned a blind eye. I come from a family where a large number of them are deeply religious and whilst they've never openly said it I'd be surprised if they don't hold some Homophobic views based on their religious belief. A blanket ban on players with a criminal conviction would kind of go against the "inclusive" nature we like to portray in RL. As much as I despise Folau's views I'd be a lot more disgusted if he was a convicted murderer/paedophile. Best thing we can do as a sport and as individual clubs is replicate Wigan's stance and make our home games against Catalans as our LGBTQ day. Completely distance ourselves from his opinions and take a massive visible stance which shows as a sport we don't agree with them. Oh and not sure who mentioned Keegan Hirst above but unless Catalans draw Halifax in the cup we'll never get to find out what would happen.đ Personally if I was Keegan I'd pass him my phone number after I'd smashed him into the ground and see what his reaction is.đ
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2020 18:22:12 GMT
Iâm genuinely struggling to understand the logic behind why his registration should be refused. Why should publicly stating a view that is clearly articulated in a religion which is widely accepted (particularly in Britain) prevent him being allowed to apply his trade? I do agree with what seems to be the consensus view that his comments are distasteful (and I personally do not share his views) but can anyone share a bit more on their thinking as I canât make the connection beyond people not happening to like what he has said. Giasf, rugby league sets itself up as an inclusive sport. It always has done especially when compared to the likes of Union. We have a comparatively good history with racial diversity for example. The sport also takes a hard line against supporters shouting any racist/homophobic nonsense. So against all that how does it look that Catalans have just signed a very famous sportsman who publicly preaches his divisive views? Itâs the very public and repeat expression of his views that does it - itâs not a one off. Even if he keeps his gob shut it is all over the news and will continue to be for a while. Also I wouldnât lump his religion in with everyone else in this country- his âChurchâ preaches a form of Christianity more extreme that the vast majority of Christians. Thats my take on it anyway. Others may be able to describe it differently.
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Post by JJR on Jan 28, 2020 18:34:41 GMT
Is it helpful then to align this with witches, cruelty to anilmals etc, perhaps not, but just in my view.
One can't say Folau is wrong for having his view but one can say he's wrong in the way he expressed it. He did express it badly, as we all do at times and possibly got frustrated in the hiatus that followed.. He then defended himself, not very well, and dug a deep hole which he now probably regrets but time will tell.
But disagree with him, don't condemn him for eternity and let's see where it leads. Catalan, as usual have got their timing completely wrong for totally selfish reasons. It's too raw, it's not had time to settle and mend and to sign him this year when it's not had time to settle is shear stupidity. As usual the media haven't much on so it's the media frenzy filling 24 hour news.
So I look forward to going to Saints on Friday and said enough on this subject. But always good to see how different people view things.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 28, 2020 19:03:06 GMT
I've just had a brainwave. As most no I've got no axe to grind with RU and think it's high time we at Salford took the moral high ground in this. Let's pick a home game (say Catalan) and pick a random local RU team (I'm told www.villagespartans.co.uk are good) and invite them along. Do a skills session pre game and walk out hand in hand with players of both teams. My genius at time dazzles me đ
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Post by Carnster on Jan 28, 2020 19:31:40 GMT
Is it helpful then to align this with witches, cruelty to anilmals etc, perhaps not, but just in my view. I think you missed my point. I wasn't aligning it with those examples. I was just using those examples to show how society morally changes over time.
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Post by JJR on Jan 28, 2020 19:42:12 GMT
And Carnster I think you missed my point re Anne Francke but let's allow it to rest. Enjoy the match on Friday. Cheers.
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Post by redunderthebed on Jan 28, 2020 22:43:04 GMT
I think Carnster has put it best. Spot on that.
I am all for giving people second chances, understanding that people make mistakes. Even (maybe especially?) those who have committed nasty crimes. My catholic upbringing made a big deal out of the prodigal son and I am no stranger to hearing regressive religious views. But the stuff Falou has said are extreme and a way from mainstream Christianity in the U.K. and Australia.
But crucially he has shown no remorse and nothing to suggest he is in anyway bothered about the impact views like that have on real people. Hardaker, for instance, has faced his issues and done something about his previous behaviours.
He is free to think and say anything he likes but he has no right to be employed by an organisation whose values those utterings are fundamentally opposed to. RL needs to sort a proper agreed position on domestic abuse too. But that doesnât make this ok
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Post by bigkeev on Jan 29, 2020 9:19:26 GMT
I think Carnster has put it best. Spot on that. I am all for giving people second chances, understanding that people make mistakes. Even (maybe especially?) those who have committed nasty crimes. My catholic upbringing made a big deal out of the prodigal son and I am no stranger to hearing regressive religious views. But the stuff Falou has said are extreme and a way from mainstream Christianity in the U.K. and Australia. But crucially he has shown no remorse and nothing to suggest he is in anyway bothered about the impact views like that have on real people. Hardaker, for instance, has faced his issues and done something about his previous behaviours. He is free to think and say anything he likes but he has no right to be employed by an organisation whose values those utterings are fundamentally opposed to. RL needs to sort a proper agreed position on domestic abuse too. But that doesnât make this ok In fairness mate he has shown some remorse. He stated yesterday that his intention wasnt to hurt anybody and that he wont do it again. Short of abandoning his fundamental beliefs i'm not sure what else is reasonable to expect. The fact is nobody on this thread as far as I can tell has condoned what he said. The point I was trying to make earlier is that moral outrage is fine, and applying consequences to actions is fine, as long as they are applied across the board. It seems to me to be categorically wrong to exclude Folau in specifically because his particular transgression is more abhorrent to us based on a societal trend. We have to decide, we either apply a blanket ban from our sport to everyone who transgresses in a manor deemed unacceptable to society, or we dont. Cherry picking who we castigate for their crimes is fundamentally wrong. I loved Rob Lui, I thought he was one of our all time best over seas signings, he also from the odd time I spoke to him seemed like a nice bloke. When we talk about making amends realistically the only real amends he could make in his situation was trying his best and not doing it again. Using this as a barometer, now Folau has said he wont do it again surely he is entitled to the same opportunity?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2020 9:48:04 GMT
Iâm sorry but his very brief statement and promise not to say anything else isnât remorse itâs deflection so he can get a job. He doesnât even reference his past comments or the specific group he has hurt.
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Post by bigkeev on Jan 29, 2020 10:41:57 GMT
Iâm sorry but his very brief statement and promise not to say anything else isnât remorse itâs deflection so he can get a job. He doesnât even reference his past comments or the specific group he has hurt. I dont believe he is remorseful. I expect he still fundamentally believes what he said. That being the case I said that was the best we could reasonably expect. My point is, we either treat all serious transgressor's the same, or were guilty of being prejudicial and hypocritical in a similar way to him. We have players (we all know who they are) in our sport guilty of serious incidents some of which far worse in my opinion than what Folau is guilty of, some being repeat offenders. There are often moans and questions about how they get away with it, but no one seriously talks about banning people for life, yet in this case people seem to feel perfectly justified, and indeed morally outraged. I just dont think this is fair, hes entitled to believe what he wants however distasteful it may be. As long as he keeps his mouth shut and doesnt preach about it I believe he is entitled to play the same as all the others.
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Post by hillbillyred on Jan 29, 2020 12:11:25 GMT
"don't condemn him for eternity": again I apologise to MR
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2020 12:24:24 GMT
"don't condemn him for eternity": again I apologise to MR I'd say buy me a pint and we'll forget it but I'm afraid you'd make me sup that crap you drink đ¤Ž
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Post by hillbillyred on Jan 29, 2020 13:17:10 GMT
Trippel or Duppel?
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